How to split chores without ruining your friendship

Chores become personal when expectations are invisible. The fix is a short, honest agreement.

Step 1: List recurring chores

Start with 8–12 items you actually do every week or month. Avoid once-off tasks.

Step 2: Define the quality bar

“Clean the bathroom” can mean five different things. Write down what counts.

Step 3: Choose a rotation rule

Rotate by week or by completion. Completion-based rotation feels fairer when people travel.